My question: Will female voters consider Sarah Palin’s run for VP based on her qualifications, character, and such, or will they reject her outright solely because she’s so beautiful?
When Other Women Hate You Because You’re Beautiful:
No one really talks about it, but one of the main issues preventing women from getting along with other women is jealousy. In the professional world, it breaks down to one of two things: jealousy over how good you are at what you do or jealousy over how good you look doing what you do. These related but distinct problems each deserve their own post, so I’ll start with Green Monster #1: when you’re prettier than the average woman.
Many of you reading this are probably already feeling an aversion to the topic—none of us likes to admit that other people are better looking than we are or, even worse, that we resent them for it. In fact, many of us don’t admit it, not even to ourselves. Instead, we channel the jealousy into resentment and let it lurk inside of us until the object of it does something that we can interpret maliciously—and then we hate them for that reason.
First, we can hate another woman instantaneously – without anything more to go on than what she is wearing.
You’ve all heard it or seen it before. The way a younger, more attractive, smarter, funnier, prettier, sexier woman (it only has to be one, but can also be a combination of these traits – the more she has, the worse the reaction) walks into a room and the other women all turn to look at her. It’s like we have a sixth sense just for knowing when competition is in the room. “Look at her,” we think, “she thinks she is hot stuff.” Then, the deadly venom: “But she’s not.”
From this point, the woman is our enemy.
Jealous of Other Pretty Women? A Tip for Improving Your Body Image:
There can be a sort of snide competition between women, where we allow other women to be beautiful….to a point. Other women can be pretty, as long as they’re not too pretty. A woman can be beautiful, but if she’s also smart, organized, and a great mom? Forget it. We gossip about her and secretly love seeing her slip up. We alternate between wanting to be her and, well, hating her.

No one really talks about it, but one of the main issues preventing women from getting along with other women is jealousy. In the professional world, it breaks down to one of two things: jealousy over how good you are at what you do or jealousy over how good you look doing what you do. These related but distinct problems each deserve their own post, so I’ll start with Green Monster #1: when you’re prettier than the average woman.
Many of you reading this are probably already feeling an aversion to the topic—none of us likes to admit that other people are better looking than we are or, even worse, that we resent them for it. In fact, many of us don’t admit it, not even to ourselves. Instead, we channel the jealousy into resentment and let it lurk inside of us until the object of it does something that we can interpret maliciously—and then we hate them for that reason.
First, we can hate another woman instantaneously – without anything more to go on than what she is wearing.
You’ve all heard it or seen it before. The way a younger, more attractive, smarter, funnier, prettier, sexier woman (it only has to be one, but can also be a combination of these traits – the more she has, the worse the reaction) walks into a room and the other women all turn to look at her. It’s like we have a sixth sense just for knowing when competition is in the room. “Look at her,” we think, “she thinks she is hot stuff.” Then, the deadly venom: “But she’s not.”










For an organization like the GOP that counts on divisiveness to succeed, they got this one wrong. Sure, it worked for Hitler blaming Jews, but we’re talking about gender conflict here.
Women are unlikely to vote for a presumed beauty queen if that’s the mask used to cover her fatal qualities.
Women remember to vote in the USa?
Since when?
Short answer: Yes, if she’s hot enough. There are people who are attractive enough to attract people of the same sex, even those not sexually inclined in that way.
Dunno if Gov. Palin is either exceptionally attractive or even really pretty, though.
I am not voting for a Republican in November Period. They took power and abused it. Time to pay the piper.
God, I hope people vote for her based on her character and political positions. But, I suspect, though, that too many people share her right wing, extreme, Christian conservative views as well as will love her, now apparent, willingness to flat out lie about her opponent.
And it is not specifically about experience. I think the question of experience is tiresome. To argue that a few terms getting earmarks for a small town is “better” preparation for the presidency than being a senator (or a community organizer) is fatuous. But who knows? Maybe she would be just fine as president (in a technical sense.)
But the Republicas will argue that because being a small town mayor (and partial term govenor of a small state) is not automatically disqualifying that she is, therefore, qualified. Because it is mean to ask Palin about her qualifications, she must be qualified!
The women who’ll vote for the ticket only because she’s got no Y chromosome will balance out the ones who’ll not vote – and there’ll be some – for it ’cause she’s hot. In other words, a wash.
And @Ducky: “Dunno if Gov. Palin is … even really pretty, though” What the hell? She’s not just pretty, she’s flat out gorgeous. I’m sorry, Gorgeous, with a capital G. And that skirt. And those glasses. Sigh.
I’ve got a crush on her of the kind I previously thought was only possible for 22-year-old Americorps member Obamabots to have on the junior Senator from Illinois. I can’t vote for her because of the whole creationism in schools thing, but man I like looking at her.
I don’t know. Most women aren’t are dumb enough to look at only the cover.
Rant:
I wouldn’t vote for the Repubs or Dems even if my mom was on the VP ticket (and my mom is one of the smartest natural managers I’ve ever seen). Both parties have both managed to screw so much up it isn’t funny anymore.
We need a 3rd party candidate in office who isn’t tied to either party. You want to see how much these two parties are working together now? Just get a 3rd party candidate in office. The whole world will see, too. It isn’t a republic when you are only shown two sides of the same coin.
Why are there default selections (Yes) on these polls? Is someone trying to steer us towards an answer?
I don’t think linking to “opinion pieces” is proof of anything except that you can find websites supporting any opinion you can think of. So–do the opinion pieces reflect reality or the urban rumor?
OTOH–I’m trying to think of any guys that were “jealous” in this way of other guys==and I really don’t have a single example. Just the opposite I would say, guys admire and want such guys as their friends, for a variety of reasons. Thats my experience, but I wouldn’t call it “the truth.”
Only an idiot would say that women will vote based on the looks of the woman.
Women will vote for a woman if they represent or can identify with what women seek.
Ghandi, Thatcher, Meir, etc. were elected because women saw them as being themselves.
Clinton got votes because she was for families, healthcare and women’s rights.
Palin will garner votes because she is a working mom, is for family and shows that a girl from podunk town in Alaska can make it in a man dominated world.
Palin and Clinton are the poster girls of the result of the Sufferagettes and the ERA movements.
Palin is also more palatable to women as she has not shown herself as a greedy, grasping and self-centered person. Many do not like Clinton because she wants to upstage everyone.
There is a vast difference between shinning and grandstanding.
Personality, Palin can bring them in. But alas all of them are plutocrats that will only carry on with status quo politics.
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There are always Neanderthals when it comes to appraising others. I would think the more secure a person, the less likely they are to be jealous of another.
I’ve had women bosses before and they hold no more special traits than do male bosses. True, they might nor laugh the same at a ribald joke, or care to join the crew for a beer, but on the job they are just as good.
Jealousy of other women? LOL !!! Men can be just as jealous. Men size up other men as potential competition on first sight probably more so that do women. And men also discuss men behind their backs.
Sarah Palin is beautiful? I find she’s just average.
Oh yeah…I live in Montreal…NA’s beautiful women capital.
Women will only act “catty” when there is perceived or real competition. Lucky guy?
This weekend my mom told me of the 1960 election, and her friend’s reaction to JFK. Basically, her “ditsy” (her term, not mine) friends all said they were voting for Kennedy because he was so good looking. She thinks Palin was a great choice if only so we can see if “ditsy” men will react the same way.
http://tinyurl.com/5zrbfz
http://tinyurl.com/6j5xxx
http://tinyurl.com/5f7qpg
OK Mark, whatever you say.
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Where are all the desultory polls about Obama or Biden?
Sad to say, but I am going with No.
#11 and #13
Mark, she’s good looking for a hillbilly.
Cursor, you gotta go to Montreal. It’s not just their looks, it’s their attitude.
I’m waiting for another Angel Wong GILF Republican lesbian comment…
#13 Bwahaahaha
I counter with this:
http://tinyurl.com/6286eq
Montreal is #2 after Sin City
Just take a walk anytime around downtown Montreal.
So, if they would vote for that PIG Hillary, the Dems now hope she won’t vote for an intelligent, totally refreshing, sparkling Republican. You guys are funny. I am sure Barry is shaking in his Adidas.
Data point.
My wife was on the fence between not voting and voting for McCain. After Palin’s speech last night McCain/Palin racked up another vote.