By SN
Saturday August 22, 2009
Tracy Clark-Flory – Salon – Aug. 18, 2009:
Teenagers now have access to a free Internet library of “bestiality, piss-drinking, throat-fucking, bukkake gang bangs, triple anal penetrations” (and let’s not forget, coprophilia), as Eric Spitznagel puts it in the September issue of Details. There’s no doubt this is influencing teen sexuality — I mean triple anal penetrations on demand, c’mon! — but he sets out to answer the question of how it’s changing, exactly. That question truly deserves a book-length response, but his short answer is: Kids these days are having sex like porn stars.
The most vivid example he gives is that most members of Generation XXX think “sex ends with a money shot to the face.” Some boys, like one 17-year-old quoted in the piece, believe that “there is just something about blowing a load in a chick’s face that makes you feel like a man.” Spitznagel explains, “For most men over 30, facials aren’t something you actually do. They’re like car chases or hurling someone through a plate-glass window — the difference between cinema and life.
He gives other examples of how the sex lives of “America’s porn-fed youth” are different from past generations: They think pubic hair is nasty and anal sex is hot, and girls idolize the porn stars who inadvertently teach them how to give toe-curling blow jobs. But he spills the most ink, ehem, on the come on the face thing.
Find more milk facials here.
#19, continued,
Can anyone picture Alphie in a relationship?
Bobbo – way to champion low standards.
Porn is inevitably in the mind of the beholder.
I’ll bet the complainers about this perfectly legitimate, informational article wouldn’t mind seeing someone being shot to death, stabbed to death, crushed in a car accident or even watching someone’s head explode.
To me, watching ‘snuff’ news coverage over and over again a thousand time is pornographic.
Sick phuks. It’s all in your heads, ya know?
#22–Jerry==how would you approach this subject then?
Should it be discussed at all? Or was it just the pictures?
How should parents get the info that what their kiddies do on the internet may affect their sexual orientation?
Hmmmmmm?
The pictures point to an actual Russian advertising campaign. I find it distasteful, but someone had the chutzpah to carry it out. The pictures are therefore extremely relevant and not exactly offensive. They illustrate what the other article suggests, that “porn standards” are becoming mainstream. I still wonder if that is really happening or has just been augmented somewhat to make news, but all I’m saying right now is that he pictures are pertinent. DU has always been very good in that department.
What makes me reject the ad is that I think it is demeaning to women, but the article makes a perfectly valid point: maybe young women don’t feel demeaned at all and don’t need my stupid, outdated indignation. Maybe they enjoy such practices and whoever disagrees would do them a big favor by shutting the hell up.
I think that we are witnessing a very peculiar period, with cultural and political changes as dramatic as those in the 1960s. It’s no use standing in the way of the History train. All that we can do is step aside and watch it go by… as we are helplessly left behind.
Porn sex?
You mean European sex that American GI’s learned during WWI and then brought home.
This guy writing hasn’t a clue. People have been doing “porn” sex for years. Where the hell did we get the term Cleveland Steamer? Sure wasn’t after the net became popular! How about Pearl Necklace? Yeah that term was NEVER used until porn industry went big in the 70′s.
We have been having kinky sex way before this schmuck even was a glint in the milkman’s eye. (BTW to this moron I’ll bet that Glint in Milkman’s Eye is from 2002 from a spam email!)
And the statement that most men over 30 don’t do facials. Maybe most men over 60 possibly.
The guy is talking from his ass. Kids today are not doing anything less than what we did unless you are older than 50. Then you made up for it in the 70′s. They just are more honest about it because there is less stigma about talking about sex.
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The biggest problem with this is the general lack of respect towards women. Teenage boys will do almost anything to get laid, and unfortunately a teenage girl is pressured into doing just about anything to keep her boyfriend happy because for many of them, having a boyfriend is the absolute most important thing in life at the time. Watching porn is no different than watching an incredibly sick and twisted horror movie…you have to be able to separate reality from fiction.
I’ve known many women who never had an orgasm until their mid 20′s. Porno can be blamed in several of these instances. How often in a porn does a man perform oral sex on a woman? If he does, its very brief and the second he starts doing it, the actress is pretending to be overcome with ecstasy.
Just because you are old enough to do it, doesn’t mean you know how to do it.
It’s all true. I grew up reading books by the Marquis De Sade and they definitely gave me an unrealistic expectation of my future sex life.
err, well, ummm I googled “triple anal penetration” thanks to this article
Wow!
I didn’t think it was possible, but now I have video proof!
And I didn’t see any CGI
Thanks to SN for bringing this highly informational topic to the blog
(I wonder if quadruple is possible? Ohhh, google…)
So much for integrity and journalism on this blog. Readership must really be low for SN to be “jumping the shark” with this and John to allow it.
Yep, porn desensitizes teens to what is considered “normal behavior”. The same goes for violent movies and video games. I remember being disturbed by “A Clockwork Orange” when I was in my teens. Now, it could play on a Saturday morning kids show it’s so tame.
Damn, and all we had back then was our fathers stolen Playboy Mags where seeing a nipple was a treat. What kids have access to today is mind boggling.
You don’t have to be a prude or “afraid” of porn and sex to find this story disappointing. I used to like this site because of the actual news that was linked to.
I go to FARK for my low-class attention grabber headlines. They do it better. DU has taken a dramatic dive in quality lately. I used to like this site because of the actual news that was linked to. Now I check it out of habit and don’t stay long.
No wonder he’s losing money.
And by the way, after this story, I agree with the filters that are blocking DU. DU is now NSFW.
#24 Bobbo — Unfortunately the fixing the internet is like stopping a tidal wave of diahrrea. The more you try, the worse it stinks. You just have to recognize the internet for what it is, a somewhat useful but mostly destructive pandora’s box on the American and world economy and moral fiber.
#33–jerry==everything you say is demonstrably wrong and I’d love to go into details, but since you didn’t even address much less answer a single question asked at #24 nor support anything you posted at #22, I have to assume the effort isn’t worth it.
but at least your morals have been championed?
What? That I could have done without the milk pictures? What can you say about something that is borderline obscene? They keep pushing the envelope. What can you say to the parents except try to avoid this tidal wave.
Jerry–do you know what a question is? There are a few at #24==go back and see if you can spot them. You’ll find them in front of the question mark (?).
See==you can choose to educate us by answering questions and asking your own that flow therefrom.
Its called a conversation.
I do agree that wasting food like that is a waste. Think of the kiddies who have to walk 3 miles to get dirty water to drink. Now THATS obscene.
I heard yesterday that porn revenues were way down. Whoever said ratings booster was probably right.
Giggity!
The biggest hole in this story is thinking that all XXX agree, or what is true about the group he studied is true about the planet.
The Amish aren’t doing this and most likely weren’t part of his study.
Much of the world is Muslim and just accessing these sites would be more than enough to put you into a world of hurt!
My best guess; this may be true for upper middle class and urban center kids in some locations. At other locations they may be less porn soaked though I suppose they can get it if they want it.
Go to Google.
Switch off SafeSearch, then search for images of “coprophilia”.