With all the news stories of Tiger’s mistresses, and more recently, Jesse James cheating on Sandra Bullock with Michelle ‘Bombshell’ McGee, it seems appropriate to find out how things are in DU land with relationships. Assume for the poll that we’re looking for both marriages and committed relationships, straight, gay, whatever.
@10
“Ever notice when the cheated woman is the breadwinner (like Sandra Bullock) they have no problem dropping hubby like a hot rock but when the cheating husband is the cash-cow they stick around (like Tiger’s wife)?
I wonder why?”
You answered your own question, fella.
Greater than 70% have not cheated. A great followup is how many actually had the opportunity to cheat.
3. Benjamin
Show me a beautiful woman and I’ll show you a man tired of fucking her.
How many men cheat on their partners/spouses with women HOTTER than what’s at home in bed?
How about this. Is it wrong to be with another man’s woman? Unless you are friends with someone, or have some other oath-bound loyalty to them, I think it is not improper.
It is absolutely wrong to cheat on your spouse, who you have explicitly made a guarantee to. If you can get some, and are not in a committed relationship, are you bound by the promises other people make?
I’ve been married over 25 years, so I think about cheating all the time.
I don’t care how pretty your wife is. Unless she’s enthusiastic about sex, it’s very unlikely that you’re getting enough sex. If your wife is enthusiastic about sex, the chances are she will tire of you and look for outside action. You just can’t win. All you can do is find somebody that’s neither enthusiastic nor indifferent, and that places the family as priority one. Sex is important, but should never take priority over the well being and integrity of the family. Commitment can be a real bite in the ass, but there’s no road to happiness without it.
One time I used my left hand. But the right got jealous.
#24 Been married 23+ years. Love being married, never think about it.